Sometimes caring too much drained me; mentally, emotionally and physically. All these for people who even barely cared for me. I’m happy I learnt how to let go💕
It’s honestly too draining! You’d be so shocked how there are more people you’ve not met who would love you just the way you are, people who are not your closest, who are simply just rooting for you with genuine heart.
I recently let go a relationship I found myself stuck in for almost a year just cause I didn't want to hurt the other person's feelings. It literally got to the brim for me when this person consistently chose themself and other people without considering my own emotions. I wished I hadn't ignored that side of them because I completely lost all of myself to them... All I can say is, it sure wasn't worth it.
Giving excuse of not knowing what they are going through to make them treat you like that doesn't even count cos someone that loves you friend or relationship won't let what they are going through affect your being with them when they can communicate
For me, learning to walk away wasn’t about being cold, it was about finally valuing my peace over keeping every relationship alive.
Boundaries aren’t walls; they’re protection. The right people won’t make you question your worth, and losing the wrong ones is never really a loss. Sometimes learning how to just walk away is the best thing you can do for yourself, no closure, no conversation, just go, save yourself.
Thank you for writing, Aisha! I hope you continue. ❤️
Thank you for this.
With or without them I will actually cope
Yes my love!! You will cope. Love you 😘
You’d honestly cope.
Sometimes caring too much drained me; mentally, emotionally and physically. All these for people who even barely cared for me. I’m happy I learnt how to let go💕
I’m happy for you my friend!❤️😊
It’s honestly too draining! You’d be so shocked how there are more people you’ve not met who would love you just the way you are, people who are not your closest, who are simply just rooting for you with genuine heart.
This sentence ~ `I no longer need validation to keep people close when I know they wouldn’t do the same for me.’💗💗
Cheers to growth🥂
Thank you Aisha 🫶🏼💘
No time to seek validation 😌 proud of us my friend ❤️
Thissssssssss!!! The way I don’t have to overthink protecting my boundaries now is refreshing 🙂↕️. So glad we’re all protecting our peace 🤍
Very refreshing 🥺🥺 it really feels good to be good to oneself
I always say this, not every ended relationship needs closure, sometimes just walk away. Cheers to more personal growth 🥂✨
Very spot on! Not everyone needs closure. Thank you my friend ❤️❤️
“I cared too much about how the other person felt and too little about myself”
Spot on 💗
Cheers to putting ourselves first now🥳💗
Thank God for growth and the ability to decipher between “mistakes” and “disrespect”
Thank God fr!! I’m glad for us both
I can so relate to this🥺🫶🏻
Twinnn
I really needed this...
I recently let go a relationship I found myself stuck in for almost a year just cause I didn't want to hurt the other person's feelings. It literally got to the brim for me when this person consistently chose themself and other people without considering my own emotions. I wished I hadn't ignored that side of them because I completely lost all of myself to them... All I can say is, it sure wasn't worth it.
The last line!!!! I'd cope
Giving excuse of not knowing what they are going through to make them treat you like that doesn't even count cos someone that loves you friend or relationship won't let what they are going through affect your being with them when they can communicate
I feel this deeply.
For me, learning to walk away wasn’t about being cold, it was about finally valuing my peace over keeping every relationship alive.
Boundaries aren’t walls; they’re protection. The right people won’t make you question your worth, and losing the wrong ones is never really a loss. Sometimes learning how to just walk away is the best thing you can do for yourself, no closure, no conversation, just go, save yourself.
Thank you for writing, Aisha! I hope you continue. ❤️
Slowly disengage ke?Omo quickly disengage from people who drain you oh because they never stop!
Sometimes you just need to cut some people off to grow💯.